Do you ever feel like every area of your life is changing so fast and you’re just standing in the middle of it all, confused and directionless? You could consider a new beginning as the start of a new year. A fresh start, a new goal, a year to make your dreams come true. Be determined and persevere.
I have always been delighted at the prospect of a new day, a fresh try, one more start, with perhaps a bit of magic waiting somewhere behind the morning. Beginnings could happen more than once or in different ways. You could think you were starting something afresh, when actually what you were doing was carrying on as before. You don’t need endless time and perfect conditions. Do it now. Do it today. Do it for twenty minutes and watch your heart start beating. Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it…it’s just easier if you do.
Don’t worry about being worried. You’re heading out on an adventure and you can always change your mind along the way and try something else. When everything seemingly falls apart, it’s more important than ever to get clear on the direction you want to go in as you move forward. Focus on how you want to feel in every area of life and then start doing activities that create those desired feelings. This is about you. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Life is full of misery, loneliness, and suffering – and it’s all over much too soon. Every time your heart is broken, a doorway cracks open to a world full of new beginnings, new opportunities. Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself. One thing I know for sure is that we learn about ourselves through new experiences. So whatever the ending and new beginning is for you right now, allow yourself to be swept away by the sweet freedom that comes with it. Always remember that each day is a new life. Each moment is really a new life. What we call memories are really present thoughts. What we call anticipations are really present thoughts. No one has ever lived in any moment except the present.
Success is liking what you do, and liking how you do it. We don’t or at least we aren’t supposed to be living our lives in hopes of making everyone else happy by our accomplishments. Though we are supposed to live our lives helping others and making this world a better place, we must do so as ourselves.
To accomplish great things, you must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe. Be a dreamer, a believer, and a courageous and cheerful thinker. Be a positive motivator, a productive doer, and a go-getter who keeps her head in the clouds and her feet on the ground. Be about what you say you are about. The time you have to prove to the world that you are who you say you are is limited. We are only afforded a short amount of time while we are here and to make the best use of it we have to do much more than talk about the things we would like to do. Let the spirit of passion and possibility ignite a fire within you to do something worthwhile today, and don’t forget to spread your enthusiasm to those around you.
One thing that you have to remember is that if you don’t believe in yourself no one else will. You have to realize that you are in control of your own success. You can’t let others’ opinions of you affect how your life ends up. To step into the life we would like to see, and to really embody the person we would like to be we have to get over the jitters. There’s no excuse for being an amateur forever. Life is short. Get past the fear of failing or making mistakes and get to flying. One way that you can help yourself do this is by making a plan, and setting reasonable short term goals alongside real long term goals. Not everything will go according to plan at all times, but this is a good way to get past your initial fears.
Don’t let the fear of not being accepted stop you from being who you really are. Strive to show everyone that being who you really are is the only way that you can truly be accepted. You can never be a success in life by trying to be someone that you aren’t, true success comes from being able to show the world who you truly are, and how they love you because of it. Also, be sure to live in the now. You are no longer who you were in the past, and you will get to your future in due time. Focus on making positive moves in the present move, never forget to live out each day. Listen to people who have the things you want in life. Don’t take advice from losers. You’ll end up with what they have. Always strive to better yourself!
We have all been rejected at some point in our lives and I want to tell you congratulations! Rejection is God’s way of saying wrong direction.
Those who are successful in life don’t see rejection as a bad thing because they know with each rejection that they are closer to their victory. When someone rejects or breaks up with you, it may be a blessing in disguise. The person was not right for you. Or maybe you would have eventually been miserable with them. Now the door is open for someone else much better to come into your life.
Rejection is someone’s personal opinion about you, it isn’t how God sees you or who you are. If you were rejected in a relationship, for whatever reason, that is that person’s opinion, not God’s. If you were fired from a job, that is that company’s opinion, not God’s. Never allow someone’s opinion become the definition of who you are in God. Stop letting the fear of rejection stop you from living a free life. In your life journey, you will absolutely encounter many types of rejection. There will be people who tell you not to believe in yourself, or your dreams. There will be doubts you have in your own mind as well. But refuse to give up, and refuse to let any negative thinking rule you.
Instead of weeping at the door of rejection, we should lift up our eyes and locate the open door of favour that is open before us. Rejection simply tells us that favour is nearby and we should seek it. The more and more you are willing to try, the more opportunities you will see arise in your life. Not everyone is going to like you, what you say, what you are trying to sell, and so on. Don’t let anyone else’s disbelief stop you from getting to the victories that you know are meant for you. Remember, rejection is just an illusion. The reality is that you are 100% lovable just the way you are. So turn people’s rejection in to your heavenly Father’s protection!
You need not boast when you have the answers. You need not judge when you know you are right. You need not exaggerate when others don’t believe. You need not defend yourself when being ridiculed because a great man is always willing to be little.
Humility is one of the hardest traits to learn, especially in these times, but is in reality one of the most important traits a person can have who is interested in success. A person with humility knows when to be quiet and when to speak, even though people around them may expect for them to be willing to fulfill social norms.
The greatest people among us are always willing to be small if it means that success can be achieved. A level headed person knows that life isn’t about being superior to your fellow man, and is more about being superior to your former self.
Acquire the experience of being humble. Realize there is always room to learn, no one is perfect including yourself, and be willing to share your success to help others along the way.
Hard work, and a humble resolve are the catalysts for some of the greatest things known to mankind. Show how much of a difference that you can make in your own life and in the lives of the people around you by living in this way.
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure because winners are not people who never failed but people who never quit.
How much do you really want to win? Do you desire to succeed more than you want anything else in life? Do you go to sleep thinking of your passion and wake up from dreams of your passion? Do you wake up each morning with goals in mind, and then commit the effort to achieve them?
Becoming a winner is developed by constantly being reminded and pushed by things in your life that represent the culture of winning. Consistently being reminded isn’t enough though, we have to be willing to commit to the hard work and dedication that it takes to truly be a winner in any field.
Developing a winner’s mindset is also helped by spending time with like-minded people. In this big world it’s hard to win alone, so make sure that you have the right support team around you so that when times get hard you can continue to push on.
There is no better time than now to win! Never stop trying.
Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.
Making great choices is what leads great people into great lives. Often when making choices we are affected by the factors and influences of our immediate environments and forget to take our own desires into account.
This thoughtless attitude may seem very harmless at first but as time ticks on, people who continue to make the bad choices end up lost in a sea of unhappiness. When we live life going against our better judgment doing things that we know we shouldn’t be we are consciously choosing to limit our own growth!
Improve your life now and in the future by developing the habit of making better choices in your life when the opportunities to do so are presented to you. Think about everything you do, and pay special attention to all of the things you do that have seemed to be detrimental to your life in the past.
Think about the success you want to see in your life, and choose to go get it!
Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.
You can’t go through life expecting to make great things happen without experiencing failure and being discouraged from these failures. People who are winners know that sometimes things just won’t go your way.
Failure is necessary if we are ever going to really learn, and grow up to be what we know we can. Getting through failure is a part of life that can not be avoided, as we are human and we will always make mistakes.
Getting knocked down isn’t the end of things for you if you decide not to let it be. People who have seen the most success in life know this simple fact to be true. When you dream big, the only way to get there is to try and fail, again and again, until you see the results you desire to see.
If you really want to be successful in life you have to get past being fearful of failing. Fail your way to success!