Sometimes chaos will be the norm, but just because chaos in your social and physical environments may be celebrated by a majority, doesn’t necessarily mean that they are right. Do not get caught up in the brainwashing agenda of some, you were given your own brain to think for yourself. There is greatness inside of you, and you have to search deep inside of your heart to know what is really right, and to figure out what is really worth fighting for.
But be weary of this advice when it comes from a fool.
Being able to discern what advice is for you, and what advice isn’t is something that is very difficult to do, but learning how to discern good advice from bad advice can be very beneficial to the success of any man.
If you notice someone who gives great advice but doesn’t seem to have much success in their life, make sure that you don’t listen too intently because chances are if you do, you will end up just like them.
Without a knack for working hard, a person must realize that they will never get as far in life that they desire to. In life you have to continue to work hard towards standards that you have set for yourself, and when you reach these standards or goals, a person must be willing to continue to raise the bar in order to stay focused, and in order to be as successful as they are truly destined to be.
Never let a bad day cause you to give a lack of effort in whatever it is in life that you do to represent yourself. Let the downs you will experience in life help you to continue to create your legacy.
Those who are strong realize that life is too short to hold anger against people, because holding onto these ill feelings will do nothing but slow down their progression.
Those who are strong realize that life is bigger than them, and bigger than their own relationships. Life is about touching the people of the world and creating a legacy of positive change in the world before they are gone from it.
Life doesn’t make everyone strong, but the strong do help to make life better for everyone!
It is those who have not a care in the world for how society tells them to dress, and how society tells them to talk and walk, that makes them wildly attractive.
It is those who make attempts to change the world in a direction more towards world peace, and who are more concerned with seeing the world become a better place than they are with allowing the world to see them with make-up on or the freshest outfit on at the mall.
You have a choice, you can either work hard at being yourself and being wildly attractive, or you can aim to please everyone around you.
So make some new commitments to yourself, sit down and set up a plan this year to do things like take trips out of town and visit places that you have never been to and want to see. Take time to spend with your closest friends and family, a lot of us sometimes neglect our friends and family when we are in relationships. As a single person you have more time, so go rekindle those relationships. Just make an effort to focus on you, don’t rush into finding another love, find the love within yourself again first!
Especially in times such as these, when many are unsure of their next move, and have to be extra careful about every decision made so that they will continue in good standing with their jobs, the pressures at work seem very substantial.
So, make it a point to have some points of relaxation throughout the daily grind. If your office allows you to do so, take naps from 20 to 30 minutes at a time, or take a break for a few minutes out of every hour to refresh your brain, and to optimize your brain to better handle stress and pressure.
It is hard to move forward in your life staring through your rearview mirror, so try to remember that your past is in your past for a reason. If you truly can’t resist attempting another go at a relationship that you had in the past, by all means go for it. But before doing so promise yourself that you will never make the same mistakes as before twice, and if you know you will don’t go back. It is just a natural human function for us to remember the good times we have shared with someone, but don’t let your memories hold you back from walking forward to your future.
There are always people in life that will attempt belittle you, and whether they learn to grow to love you or not should never be in the forefront of your thinking. Let others be who they are, while you are who you are.
If the time comes to live in a tense confrontational situation, make the best of it, and think of your adversaries as nothing more than enemies who have no reason to be offended by you, as enemies without rhyme or reason, enemies who have no sense of real sanity in this crazy world.
Only those who are motivated daily to do whatever it is inside of them to do, will actually do it. Just as a person who doesn’t bathe daily is bound to probably not be the best smelling individual on a day to day basis, a person who doesn’t feed on plates of motivation will more often than not be a person who has been starved from success.
Each day should be your best day. Make it a point to get motivated as each day passes, and to love your life by living your life by using everything God has given you to make this world a better place.