Never Change Who You Are

Never change who you are in order to make others comfortable with who they are.
If you ever let go of your heart, and lose track of who you are on the inside, hold on because there could be a nasty wreck in your life coming soon!

We don’t or at least we aren’t supposed to be living our lives in hopes of making everyone else happy by our accomplishments. Though we are supposed to live our lives helping others and making this world a better place, we must do so as ourselves.

Don’t let the fear of not being accepted stop you from being who you really are. Strive to show everyone that being who you really are is the only way that you can truly be accepted.

You can never be a success in life by trying to be someone that you aren’t, true success comes from being able to show the world who you truly are, and how they love you because of it.

You Can’t Stop Someone Who Knows Where They’re Going

You can’t stop someone who knows where they’re going.
When a person is willing to live their life with purpose and understanding they allow for their life to continue growing no matter what comes their way. People who know what they want in life don’t look back with anger or regret, and they don’t try to look into the future as if they are scared of what is to come. They are able to understand that while they know where they are going, they can only move forward by handling what is going on in the present.

When someone is present and completely aware of what is around them, and where they are going, they have something that many of us don’t, an unbreakable sense of hope and belief. It is with the right preparation of mind, body, and spirit, that a person can seemingly achieve these high levels of being that allow for them to be shielded by the normal wear and tear that life inflicts on people without it.

Stay Away From People Who Talk Bad Daily

Stay away from people who talk bad daily, these kind of people carry a negative spirit. The problem is they are not happy with themselves.
In becoming who we are as a person we have to be willing to shake away from the judgment that we think we will see from others from being who we are. One thing about life is, there will be people that enter into your life, even at a distance, who will make no effort to get to know you, but will instead just choose not to like you.

There are always people in life that will attempt belittle you, and whether they learn to grow to love you or not should never be in the forefront of your thinking. Let others be who they are, while you are who you are.

If the time comes to live in a tense confrontational situation, make the best of it, and think of your adversaries as nothing more than enemies who have no reason to be offended by you, as enemies without rhyme or reason, enemies who have no sense of real sanity in this crazy world.

Never Lose Sight Of Where You’re Going

Never forget where you’ve been. Never lose sight of where you’re going. And never take for granted the people who travel the journey with you.
In our lives one thing that is crucial to our progress is we never lose the vision of where we want to eventually be. It is important to plan out a map to our dreams as much as possible to best prepare us, and to help us get to the places in life that we want to go in the fastest manner possible.

Sure there are times in our lives in which we must stand back and take life in, but for the most part, life requires focus, and careful attention to detail. There will be times in life that things go nowhere close to how we may have planned or visualized them going, and there will be times in which everything or just some things went our way and we were only forced to adapt in smaller avenues. Either way, when we want to produce positive results in our lives we must be willing to take positive steps in the right direction to best do so.

Excelling as a wife…..This is for the women AND men


Good day all,

I hope you are all having a great day! We thank God for helpers of destiny, yesterday Aramide, brought to my attention The Day Star women’s conference, which included amazing speakers, Rev Funke Adejumo, Pastor Nike Adeyemi and Pastor Esther Benenoch! Thank you so much Aramide, may the Lord bless you, keep and prosper all you and your’s. Amen.

I want to share with you what Rev. Funke Adejumo preached, she spoke about three things- Excelling as a woman, excelling as a wife and excelling as a mother! I will be sharing all three messages with you! This afternoon, we will be looking at excelling as a wife! Men, before you switch off, this is for you too! The message is built to speak to both men and women!!

2 Samuel 3:1

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Excelling as a woman


Good Morning everyone,

How are we all doing? Praying you all had a wonderful and great start to the week. May this week be full of testimonies! Amen! It’s the last day of July; I can’t believe how quickly the months have flown by; I just pray that the remaining five months of this year will surpass the others. Amen.

Today’s post is the last instalment of the series by Rev Funke Adejumo. She had three sermons, titled; excelling as a woman, wife and mother. If you haven’t read the other two, please read them here-

Men, I encourage you to read those posts too; she refers to both men and women. Anyway, we’re finally here! I pray you enjoy the message and it encourages you to be a better person. Amen.

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Don’t Apologize If You Don’t Mean It

Don’t bother apologizing if you’re just going to continue doing the things you said sorry for.
There is a huge difference between talking about change, and really becoming the change that you have been talking about. It is very important that when we make our convictions public, that we seek to really meet the goals that we once spoke as a dream. More often than not, the relationships you build and maintain with people over the years can easily diminish if you don’t do the things that you say you are going to do.

Our word, and our promises to the people that we are supposed to care about the most are usually very important to these loved ones. Often times, their love for us will blind them from seeing our wrongs until it gets incredibly difficult for us to really make the changes that we know we need to make. So never say sorry when you don’t really mean it, and never commit to anything that you know in your heart you dont really mean.

We Need People In Our Lives With Whom We Can Be As Open As Possible

We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversation with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.
Having people in your lives that are there to correct you when your wrong, help you when you are down, and give you guidance when you have no idea in which direction to go is absolutely crucial to living and maintaining success. Every great person that has ever lived in the world has received some kind of help and some kind of guidance along the way, and we should never be too proud as to not listen to wisdom that we do not yet have.

As the quote says we need people in our lives that are willing to be as open as possible with us. Some will only be in your lives to live off of your success instead of to help you gain more success, be weary of these folk, and do your best to stay around those who are really only in your life because they see your potential. Never be too good to take good advice, always keep an open mind, and an open heart!

One Thing About Tables, They Always Turn

Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us.
In everything bad that happens in life, there is always a positive outcome if we choose to see it correctly. Though we all experience points in our lives in which we wished that things could be a bit different, we have to be willing to stay positive by only focusing on looking back at the experience when we need to build or add value to our lives.

If we choose to continue to look at our past experiences and regret the decisions we made, we are doing nothing more than living in the past, and refusing to press forward. We have to know that remaining encouraged through the midst of adversity is key in any type of recovery and in reaching any type of goal we have established in our hearts. This is simply because, our hearts cannot be in two places at one time. So no matter what you are going through in this very moment, continue to press forward, continue to believe, and you will see wondrous things flourish in your life.

Always Trust Your First Gut Instincts

Always, always trust your first gut instincts. If you feel in your heart and soul that something is wrong it probably is.
When our spirit speaks it is important that we listen. A lot of times we will hear God tell us to let go of things that are only weighing us down, and we must be willing to exercise the free will we have to make the correct decision no matter how far we think it may set us back in the moment.

Learning when to trust your intuition comes harder for some than others, but it is a principle of wisdom that we all need to learn to apply in our lives as it is very helpful in almost all situations. Sometimes trusting your intuition over everything else can help to save you from experiencing painful circumstances, and save you from trouble that can easily swallow you whole. Many times we know what is best for our own lives, we just have to be confident enough in our intuition to make the right decisions.