Archive | August 2015

Everyone Is Your Best Friend When You Are Successful


Everyone is your best friend when you are successful. Make sure that the people that you surround yourself with are also the people that you are not afraid of failing with because best friends are the people who make their problems your problems so you won’t have to go at them alone.
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Having a best friend is one of life’s blessings. Because it is those who have support in the roughest times, that are able to get up and keep moving. Many of us simply could never be able to make it without the love and support that best friends are able to provide.

So when life starts to get the best of you, and you are fortunate enough to have someone help you through, take pride in using that hand up, not everyone has that.

Never get so caught up in your own life that you go from being someone with a best friend to someone who just has a best friend. Friendship takes engagement and actual work on a consistent basis. Being a best friend is more than just a label, and is something that requires real time and real support because you really love this person.

The biggest ingredient in a best friend is someone whose actions you respect and who you can truly be yourself around. Give real efforts to the genuine friendships you have in life, you never know where they can help to take you.

When The Power Of Love Overcomes The Love Of Power


Soul is Freedom. Love is Power. Hope is Love. Dreams are Revolutions and When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.
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Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours. Our souls, who we are deep down at our core, give us the freedom to be one sole person, so unique that in a world full of billions of people, there is no one quite like ourselves. The love we have for ourselves and others, gives us fuel and motivation to succeed in life, to advance to places where we may have never even dreamed, and to accomplish goals we set that we never actually knew if we could accomplish or not.

Hope is what gives us love, we hope for things that we come to love, we hope for things we love to come back, we hope for the better. Dreams are what defines our lives, dreams give us the blueprint to a better world and a better tomorrow. Each day, remember who you are, who you love, why you hope, and what your dreams are, doing so will give you the motivation to make the world a better place.

Hard Times Will Always Reveal True Friends


You may never know who your true friends are until life throws you an unwelcome curveball because Hard times will always reveal true friends.
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Are your friends there for you when times are hardest? When you are in need, do the same people that you help, stick around to help?

If you can answer ‘no’ to these questions, chances are that some of your friendships really need some examining.

Take note of the actions of friends when times are the hardest. This doesn’t mean you should literally take notes and keep a detailed log of what friends were there for you and at what times, so that you can use it to attack them with. A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart because friendship is not about whom you have known the longest. It is about who came and never left your side.

But it does mean to recognize what people are willing to do to show that they are there for you when you need it most, so that you know the friends who genuinely care about you.

Sometimes it hurts to examine our friends and realize that they aren’t truly for us, but doing so is beneficial for our overall growth and potential prosperity. Choose your friends wisely!

There Are Two Ways Of Meeting Difficulties


When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny because there are two ways of meeting difficulties. You alter the difficulties or you alter yourself to meet them.
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The feeling of being a failure isn’t a great one. When we stand in front of treacherous mountains we often convince ourselves that we have failed just because of the size of the challenge that is in our immediate future.

Instead of letting fear dominate us, and stop us from at least attempting to overcome the hefty tests that lie in wake, we have to be willing to face these challenges head on. Don’t give up! It’s not over. The universe is balanced. Every set-back bears with it the seeds of a come-back.

This means that we must be willing to move forward in every way possible. Even if this means we will be forced to count all of the small victories before we can even come close to fighting for the colossal victories. Always remember that in life you will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.

Use a patient, and humble resolve to tackle life. Believe in who you are, and where you are going. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all. Live strong you are more than a conqueror!

Why Most Relationships Fail


Loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walk out of your life…Most relationships tend to fail. Not because of absence of love. Love is always present. It’s just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn’t being love enough.
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A relationship is a contract usually between two people connecting them emotionally and physically. Often when we are in relationships we end up fighting the other person trying to get them to understand us, funnily enough the way to fix this problem part of the relationship is to actually do the opposite of this. You need to firstly understand your partner!
Most relationships are started with the intentions of a couple spending the rest of their lives together but not all relationships work out. There are a variety of causes to the ending of a relationship including but not limited to: a cheating partner, a controlling partner, an abusive partner, a lack of communication from both partners, and partners becoming “burnt out” or tired of one another.

In all of these causes to the ending of a relationship the key seems to be a deprivation of the binding glue of a relationship, love. Love is what holds a relationship together and when one or both individuals participating in said relationship lose the amount of love they once had for one another, or the love they once had for themselves, the partner/s resort to relationship ending tactics such as cheating, and abuse.

Acquire The Experience Of Being Humble


You need not boast when you have the answers. You need not judge when you know you are right. You need not exaggerate when others don’t believe. You need not defend yourself when being ridiculed because a great man is always willing to be little.
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Humility is one of the hardest traits to learn, especially in these times, but is in reality one of the most important traits a person can have who is interested in success. A person with humility knows when to be quiet and when to speak, even though people around them may expect for them to be willing to fulfill social norms.

The greatest people among us are always willing to be small if it means that success can be achieved. A level headed person knows that life isn’t about being superior to your fellow man, and is more about being superior to your former self.

Acquire the experience of being humble. Realize there is always room to learn, no one is perfect including yourself, and be willing to share your success to help others along the way.

Hard work, and a humble resolve are the catalysts for some of the greatest things known to mankind. Show how much of a difference that you can make in your own life and in the lives of the people around you by living in this way.

Confidence And Intelligence Will Never Stop Being Beautiful


Confidence and intelligence will never stop being beautiful because self-confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how great you are if you can’t see it yourself?
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Self-confidence is widely known as one of the biggest keys to becoming and maintaining success but many people are scared to aim to be self-confident because of all the negative connotations surrounding the trait.

Instead of fearing what others may think about us we have to be willing to ‘rock’ the truest forms of ourselves on a daily basis. There should never be a point in your day that you are made to feel uncomfortable for being genuine and honest about who you are as a person. The people with whom you are treating with a just and righteous heart – while being yourself – will love you for doing so. While the people who aren’t really for you will only desire for you to be someone you aren’t for their own fulfillment.

Be yourself, and make use of the belief you have in yourself. Don’t make apologies for who you are, and always be sure to use what you have to change the world for good.